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Persian, Ragdoll, Maine Coon -- best with children?

24K views 18 replies 12 participants last post by  Ummm  
#1 ·
My 5 year old niece desperately wants a kitten, she is extremely girly & is just dying for a fluffy kitty. She is extremely gentle with animals, great with my cats & she actually has had two pet mice that she's been wonderful with (they actually will ONLY come out of the cage for her!). So she is ready for a cat & I am thinking of getting her one for Christmas (obviously with permission from her parents).
I have read a good deal about Persians, Ragdolls, & Maine Coons but I would really like input from those who have lived with these breeds. :)
- Are Persians good with children? I'm fairly sure I've heard that they can be persnickety but is this typical?
- Which of these breeds would you recommend for a child?
- I know Persians require a lot of grooming, but is the grooming of Ragdolls & Maine Coons comparable?
- Are there any breed specific genetic tests I need to ask breeders about?
- Are there any other breeds I should be looking into? As much as I would love to get her a meezer she is not as smitten with them as she is big, chunky breeds.

Thanks in advance!
 
#2 ·
How about a Birman (see my picture of Cinderella)? They have long hair but it doesn't matt. They're gentle and loving and like being with their people.

Rather than paying top dollar to a breeder, check for specific breed rescues. Look at Petfinder and you can find cats by breeds or mix-breeds.
 
#3 ·
I can only help you in part. I have two cats, Muffin (a purebred ragdoll) and Abby (a ragamuffin/persian mix). I don't really know how either would be with children, since my kids are grown and the cats have only ever met a small child once. Abby was fine with him; Muffin's eyes grew as wide as saucers when she saw this mini-person, and she high-tailed it under the bed and refused to come out. Although I suspect her reaction was due to her never having seen a child before.

The one thing I have learned is that you can't assume the breed of a cat will automatically dictate how the cat will behave (with children or in other respects). The more important factor is the cat's personality. For example, Ragdolls are reputed to be lapcats that love to be held and go limp when you hold them. Muffin, on the other hand, wants absolutely NOTHING to do with laps, hates to be held, and will squirm and struggle if you try to hold her. So, there's no guarantee that any cat will be "true" to its breed characteristics. As such, rather than relying on breed, you might be better off to rely on information provided by a reputable breeder, rescue agency, foster, etc. (i.e., from whomever you get the cat) as to how a particular cat relates to children.

As for grooming, Muffin requires a lot of grooming and sheds profusely in spring/summer, whereas Abby requires very little grooming and sheds considerably less.

As for other breeds, you could consider a DLH (domestic long-hair).
 
#5 ·
I have a medium hair Siamese mix (I know you said no siamese, but he does not look like the "typical" siamese), and his coat is as soft as a bunny or chinchilla without needing brushing more than once a week. Some people have suggested that he is a Javanese; all I know is that he is getting fluffier everyday, but especially his tail. Here's a picture from a couple weeks ago at 3 months old, and an older pic where you can see his pretty blue eyes (his is not as "yellow" as the picture seems though):



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#6 ·
Holly is a Maine Coon...she's the sweetest, gentlest cat I've ever met. She can be a little skittish, but she's very brave and so curious that she gets over any fears quickly. She will approach everyone that comes in the house and is likely to curl up on their lap. She loves to be held.

A good thing about MC's is that they never seems to lose their kittenish ways. She's still fascinated with the things she found entertaining as a kitten, where other cats become 'jaded'.

I would not advise a male for a small child, they can get way too big to handle. The females tend to be about 12-13 pounds.

A reputable breeder is not going to allow you to purchase a kitten as a gift without meeting the family the kitten will be living with, so you won't be able to do this as a surprise. If the breeder is willing to do that, don't do business with them.

Maine Coons have an issue with Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy (HCM)...the breeder should be doing genetic testing and yearly heart testing.

This is a good site for learning about MCs:

Maine Coon Breeders and Fanciers (MCBFA): Articles

You don't say where you're located, if you're in the New England area I can point you to a couple breeders. But they won't ship (another sign of a good breeder), so you need to be able to get to Maine or NH.

And remember...if the price is a great bargain...you get what you pay for. A pet quality Maine Coon kitten from a reputable breeder should go for $700-800. I believe the other breeds you mentioned should be in the same price range.
 
#8 ·
My Ragdoll is very friendly and gentle. She'll let kids and anyone else pet her. I've never been scratched while playing with her but if you're not careful they are a big cat with massive snow leopard paws/claws. She's never even come close to scratching me when playing. Look at that puss in my side pick. Would she ever hurt anyone?

Mia the Siamese colorpoint is a doll but a bit sittish with new people. I bet in time she'd love kids becasue she loves to play and is a cuddler but she's fine boned and delicate. It looks like you already know Meezers.
 
#9 ·
My suggestion for a 5 yr. old would be an Exotic Shorthair kitten, preferably a male as they tend to be more affectionate. Exotics are sometimes called the "lazy man's Persian" and are the shorthair version of a Persian with the same laid back temperment, but playful at the same time. Their coat is thick and plushy so it's easy to groom, and they have an adorable look like a real teddy bear. Ragdolls and Maine Coons are very large cats some reaching 20 lbs, and would be too much of a handful literally imo.

Exotic Shorthair - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
 
#12 ·
tate, whatever breed you decide on, it would be best that you check out several breeders and decide not on the kitten itself, but which breeder you are going to deal with. You could give your niece a card with a picture of a kitten of it, but take your niece to the breeder and let the kitten choose her. There'll likely be one or two that will come to play with her when she sits on the floor. That's usually that kitten that will bond well with her. Let us know how it works out.
 
#15 ·
Don't forget that your local SPCA or Humane Society probably has some breeds available for adoption too. I know ours does. Wouldn't you rather adopt from a shelter and get a cat out of a cage, versus dealing with a breeder?
My two purebreads were rescues. You can find a purebread or 'mostly of a breed -mix' in a shelter and save a kitty that will love you for it.

While breeders have brought us some great lines I don't like to encourage cat overproduction.
 
#16 ·
Most responsible breeders don't encourage cat overproduction. They have their kittens neutered or spayed before they go to new owners. They educate owners in their proper care and handling, importance of vet checkups and shots. They do followups, and if for whatever reason will take back a kitten if it doesn't work out. Although it is wonderful to adopt from a shelter or rescue, some people prefer a cat with a certain look, character, and traits and these are more fixed in a purebred registered cat than in a mix or moggie.